Looking for: I am looking for a man who doesn't need loud words to understand deep feelings. Someone who knows that real connection grows slowly, like trust. I’ve had my heart shaken before, and now I’m searching for calm. For hands that hold without gripping too tight. For a quiet kind of love that still burns deep.
About me: I live in Kyiv and work as a barista, pouring warmth into every cup I serve. I’m small but strong, quiet but full of contrasts. My eyes change shade like the sky before a storm, and my hair, deep burgundy in the shadows, hides more than one story. I find beauty in silence, and I speak best through feeling.
Qualities that I appreciate in people the most: Depth. Self-awareness. The ability to sit in silence without needing to fill it. I value people who are honest even when it hurts and who don’t play games with someone’s heart.
My goals for the future: To feel safe. To wake up and know I’m loved, not questioned. To live close to nature, maybe near the mountains. To build something real with someone who sees not only my smile, but the shadows behind it too.
My travel destinations (past or future): The Carpathians are like a second home to me. I escape there often, into forests where no one calls my name. One day I’d love to hike in Norway, breathe the cold air of Iceland, or watch the fog rise over a lake in Finland. I want to travel not to escape life, but to feel it deeper.
I spend a lot of time thinking about (or my dream is): What intimacy really means. Whether two souls can truly meet without fear. I dream of a love that feels like silence after a storm. Not perfect, but peaceful. I imagine someone brushing my hair back without saying a word and knowing that it’s everything.
My favorite movies, books, music, shows: I like stories that are quiet on the surface but stormy underneath. Normal People hit too close to home. I rewatch Before Sunrise when I miss honest conversation. I read The Bell Jar by Sylvia Plath when I need to remember I'm not alone. I listen to Daughter, London Grammar, Hozier – voices that feel like feelings. When I need light, I’ll put on Gilmore Girls and let it soften the edges.
My favorite food: Something warm, slow, and made with care. Mushroom soup with thyme. Soft bread. Dark chocolate late at night. Coffee, always.
Pets in my life: I don’t have a pet now, but I dream of a black cat with a quiet soul. Animals make me feel safe. They don't ask too much, and they love in ways people sometimes forget.
My hobbies and what I'm good at: I make really good coffee and even better conversation, once you get past the quiet. I write sometimes, just for myself. I find joy in walks, photography, drawing with no plan, sitting near a window during rain. I’m good at sensing what people don’t say.
Talking about sports: I’m not competitive, but I walk a lot. Especially in forests or hills. Movement helps me think and breathe. I like yoga when I’m alone and dancing in the kitchen when no one’s watching.
The five things I can't live without: Quiet mornings, real eyes, deep forests, music that hurts a little, black coffee
You should message me if: You’re tired of surface conversations. If you crave something slow, real, and full of honesty. If you’re not afraid of someone who feels deeply and hides it under silence. If you’ve been through storms and still believe in love.
Job: Barista